Why do some prefer a Taken In Hand relationship to a conventional relationship?
Because for those of us who like this sort of thing, a Taken In Hand relationship is more fascinating, more fun, and a lot more hot for both spouses.
Because it is not true that a long-term marriage is bound to lose its sexual charge or go stale: Taken In Hand marriages remain highly charged and white hot in the long run, not just for the first three months.
When spouses remain excited by each other, there is more warmth and more good feelings all round. This enables the two to be more intimate and less defensive with each other. They are much more likely to remain happily faithful to each other.
When spouses are in a good state of mind, sexually excited by each other, and intimate and non-defensive, they are more willing to give each other the benefit of the doubt when there is a problem, and they are more likely to be able to solve problems that come up.
When spouses find their relationship and their spouse fascinating and fun, that makes it much easier to get through any tough times that occur in the course of their married life together. Boredom and a lack of interest in the other person can lead to either frustrated dissatisfaction an sadness, marriage-breaking affairs, and divorce. For those who have the Taken In Hand inclination, a Taken In Hand relationship gives the spouses a positive, delightful reason to stay happily and faithfully married rather than relying on the very grim, negative argument that it is your duty to grit your teeth and suffer the horrible burden of being faithfully married whether you like it or not.
When spouses are solving problems together rather than digging in to entrenched defensive positions, they are more forward-looking and can make progress both individually and jointly in a way that is impossible when there is bad feeling, a lack of sexual fulfilment, or when their relationship has lost its vibrancy and become more like a platonic friendship.
When couples are excited and happy, they have more energy than they would otherwise, and they can use this energy to do good things in their lives and more widely. Their happiness warms the hearts of others they meet, because they tend to be smiling rather than flat or sad. A little thing like receiving a genuine and radiant smile from a complete stranger on the street can make a person's day. And that person then in turn tends to be nicer to others, which makes them feel good, which puts them in a better frame of mind to solve their own problems, and so on!
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