If you have a lot of women you can get good at the psychology of pickup and for some men that's what they want. But for me as the dominant male in a Taken In Hand marriage, marriage is much more enjoyable.
When you're doing pickup, you have to act the way that works to close the deal, or the woman won't put out. The women are in control, not you. You're controlled by the women and by the game of pickup. You're not yourself, you're a performing circus monkey entertaining the woman and her friends with your carefully crafted stories and your props. It's unsatisfying. If you put on a good enough show, say the right things and make the right moves at the right time, you get the reward. If you don't, she doesn't put out. The women are in control, not you.
That's dissatisfying if you're a male that wants to be in control as I do.
Compare that with my situation now: with my wife, I don't have to put on a show or play the performing monkey to get what I want—I am being myself and have complete control over my wife—and she even likes it.
Why would I want to go against my dominant nature and be controlled by one woman after another when I can be myself and have real total control of a woman who wants me and enjoys being submitted by me—and who never says no to me? There's no comparison.
I never thought I'd ever have this much control of a woman but I do, and it's incredible. My wife is the best. Marriage to her is much more erotic than any number of one nighters. The sex is MUCH better, because I'm actually in control, and being in control is very relaxing for me. Pickup didn't give me the real control my dominant nature and sexuality needs. And besides, who wants to play the performing monkey all your life?