In the past, I always felt I had to suppress my natural tendency to control. Where then, I would keep things to myself so as not to rock the boat (at great cost to myself, it has to be said), now that I'm with my Lady Love, there's a huge sense of freedom and power. Where before, I was half a man, if that, now I am free to be the man I have always dreamed of being. It's an intense feeling of freedom, love, gratitude, and yes, power.
When we're walking down the street holding hands like young lovers, I know she's mine, she belongs to me, and it's a great feeling.
When she gets out of hand and I take her in hand, and she cries and screams but still presents her butt to me, never once getting up and leaving the room, always submitting, consenting, the connection I feel to her is intense, both emotional and sexual.
Best of all, I get to be the head of the household and have things how I want them in my own home, and my Lady Love LIKES it that way. I have it all: peace, order and harmony, and great sex and a loving bond. What man could ask for more?