CarlF

Entitled to all of her husband

Another steamy piece by CarlF: you won't want to miss this!

Telling him things that you can't tell him

CarlF with another idea that many couples will love.

Romance novels, good girls and mothers

An absolutely fascinating, must-read article by CarlF.

Why she wouldn't talk about it - and why she is talking about it now

For years, CarlF's wife Elle didn't want to talk about their Taken in Hand relationship, but now she is willing to talk freely.

Explicit consent - finally!

CarlF's stimulating account of how his wife made it clear that she is in fact consenting.

Circumventing consent in a Taken In Hand relationship

Men wanting to know what Taken In Hand calls for should read this post. So many Taken In Hand women wish for precisely what CarlF's wife has expressed.

The final step

CarlF is on fire!

Why won't he spank me when he's angry?

CarlF explains why it is difficult for many husbands.

Communication doesn't have to be explicit, direct or verbal

Carlf points out that sometimes the best communication is not verbal. So true!

Sleeping positions, rituals and control

Another charming piece by CarlF.

Saying "no", leadership and chocolate

Don't miss this brilliant piece by CarlF.

The power of the feminine "please"

Please please please could I persuade you to write more articles for Taken In Hand, CarlF? :-)

Exercise authority

Sometimes the relationship needs a spanking, in which case it might be a mistake to wait for a ‘good reason’, as CarlF so rightly says.

Practical hints for men - handling a strong woman

Carlf with some advice for men about taking a strong woman in hand.

Practical hints for men - you are allowed to enjoy it!

For Carlf's timely reminder that this whole thing is supposed to be a source of pleasure, not a sacrifice, hit the read article now!

Practical hints for men - times of stress

Carlf offers some advice to men about maintaining a Taken In Hand relationship through times of stress.

How can I be sure that she wants to be taken in hand?

If a woman has clearly stated that she wants her man to lead, but does not want a safe-word and does not want to talk about it, how is a man to know whether there is consent or not when he spanks her? For any man who does not want to behave immorally and be an abuser, this is an important question.