Taken In Hand - What's in it for the woman?

A question of commitment - will he be there when she needs him?

Mon, 05 May 2008 14:28:37 -0700

Noone, on the importance of commitment.

When a man takes charge, his wife no longer rejects him sexually

Mon, 19 Nov 2007 02:52:48 -0800

When Edwina and her husband discovered Taken In Hand and the idea of the wife being sexually available to the husband, the benefits were many, as this article shows. Her husband had been rather passive and tentative, and had suffered from feelings of rejection when that approach had not thrilled Edwina. The last thing many women (Taken In Hand type women, anyway) want is to be asked whether they are tired as a way of asking tentatively for sex. What they want is to be firmly taken by a man. They don't want to be in the position of giving permission, and the passivity and timidity and pathetic pleading nature of such interactions can be viscerally repulsive and result in the very rejection the man feared in the first place.

A year of new management

Mon, 25 Jun 2007 06:01:51 -0700

Jane M's account of her Taken In Hand journey in the last year.

Correcting possible misconceptions about Taken In Hand

Mon, 04 Jun 2007 12:28:48 -0700

This piece by Sully is essential reading for anyone who is shocked by the idea of a Taken In Hand relationship.

As the head of our household I put my wife first

Sun, 27 May 2007 18:18:37 -0700

Gary points out that a good leader serves.

Saying "no" as code for "I care"

Tue, 29 May 2007 11:20:43 -0700

In many relationships, this would be experienced negatively, but Dandelion is in a Taken In Hand relationship, and it made her positively swoon!

Sleeping positions, rituals and control

Sun, 20 May 2007 19:06:38 -0700

Another charming piece by CarlF.

Why is commitment important?

Sat, 19 May 2007 07:28:01 -0700

Stephen explains what men are missing sexually when they fail to take into account the importance of commitment.

Taken out of my anguish

Tue, 01 May 2007 07:32:48 -0700

Many readers will identify with Dynomite's charming article.

Responding to his loving control

Mon, 09 Apr 2007 12:20:45 -0700

A year ago Pondering would have scoffed had anyone told her she’d be feeling as she does now.

She may not know it yet, but I'm taking her in hand

Tue, 06 Feb 2007 14:08:50 -0800

It sounds as though GreySeal's wife is very happy that he has started taking her in hand – even if she has never heard of Taken In Hand.

Changing for him - pleasing for me

Mon, 27 Nov 2006 17:26:10 -0800

Hair taken in hand.

What control means to me

Sat, 28 Oct 2006 15:26:35 -0700

Techiechic talks about what control means to her.

How my husband set me free

Wed, 13 Sep 2006 05:40:22 -0700

Don't miss this beautiful piece by Peach.

Taken In Hand - the view of a psychiatrist

Fri, 01 Sep 2006 08:45:52 -0700

Is this philosophy of intimate relationships really as bad as some self-proclaimed ‘experts’ would have us believe?