Taken In Hand - What's in it for the woman?

He was horrified but now he is very happy

Tue, 02 Mar 2010 11:42:08 -0800

How things have changed!

Embracing each other's darkest secrets

Thu, 28 Jan 2010 02:10:06 -0800

Don't miss this fascinating and beautifully written article. After nearly 18 years of marriage, Melman and his wife are experimenting with a Taken in Hand relationship.

Taken In Hand for the fatally flawed

Sat, 04 Jul 2009 05:22:48 -0700

In this touching article, Louise points out that you do not need to be a paragon of all known virtues for Taken In Hand to work for you. In part, Taken In Hand is, indeed, a way of positively solving problems created by our many flaws.

From exhausted single mother to happy Taken In Hand wife

Sat, 04 Oct 2008 21:47:17 -0700

One of the benefits of Taken In Hand is that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.

A question of commitment - will he be there when she needs him?

Mon, 05 May 2008 14:28:37 -0700

Noone, on the importance of commitment.

When a man takes charge, his wife no longer rejects him sexually

Mon, 19 Nov 2007 02:52:48 -0800

When Edwina and her husband discovered Taken In Hand and the idea of the wife being sexually available to the husband, the benefits were many, as this article shows. Her husband had been rather passive and tentative, and had suffered from feelings of rejection when that approach had not thrilled Edwina. The last thing many women (Taken In Hand type women, anyway) want is to be asked whether they are tired as a way of asking tentatively for sex. What they want is to be firmly taken by a man. They don't want to be in the position of giving permission, and the passivity and timidity and pathetic pleading nature of such interactions can be viscerally repulsive and result in the very rejection the man feared in the first place.

A year of new management

Mon, 25 Jun 2007 06:01:51 -0700

Jane M's account of her Taken In Hand journey in the last year.

Correcting possible misconceptions about Taken In Hand

Mon, 04 Jun 2007 12:28:48 -0700

This piece by Sully is essential reading for anyone who is shocked by the idea of a Taken In Hand relationship.

As the head of our household I put my wife first

Sun, 27 May 2007 18:18:37 -0700

Gary points out that a good leader serves.

Saying "no" as code for "I care"

Tue, 29 May 2007 11:20:43 -0700

In many relationships, this would be experienced negatively, but Dandelion is in a Taken In Hand relationship, and it made her positively swoon!

Sleeping positions, rituals and control

Sun, 20 May 2007 19:06:38 -0700

Another charming piece by CarlF.

Why is commitment important?

Sat, 19 May 2007 07:28:01 -0700

Stephen explains what men are missing sexually when they fail to take into account the importance of commitment.

Taken out of my anguish

Tue, 01 May 2007 07:32:48 -0700

Many readers will identify with Dynomite's charming article.

Responding to his loving control

Mon, 09 Apr 2007 12:20:45 -0700

A year ago Pondering would have scoffed had anyone told her she’d be feeling as she does now.

She may not know it yet, but I'm taking her in hand

Tue, 06 Feb 2007 14:08:50 -0800

It sounds as though GreySeal's wife is very happy that he has started taking her in hand – even if she has never heard of Taken In Hand.