Taken In Hand - What's in it for the man?

An unexpected benefit of our Taken In Hand relationship

Wed, 16 Jul 2008 18:54:16 -0700

Roger Gibson on how his Taken In Hand marriage has helped him in areas of life other than just his relationship with his wife.

How to understand and appreciate a woman

Sat, 28 Jun 2008 02:45:31 -0700

Dreamwalker enthuses about women, explaining to men that the way to get everything you want in a Taken In Hand relationship is to make your wife feel safe.

When a man takes charge, his wife no longer rejects him sexually

Mon, 19 Nov 2007 02:52:48 -0800

When Edwina and her husband discovered Taken In Hand and the idea of the wife being sexually available to the husband, the benefits were many, as this article shows. Her husband had been rather passive and tentative, and had suffered from feelings of rejection when that approach had not thrilled Edwina. The last thing many women (Taken In Hand type women, anyway) want is to be asked whether they are tired as a way of asking tentatively for sex. What they want is to be firmly taken by a man. They don't want to be in the position of giving permission, and the passivity and timidity and pathetic pleading nature of such interactions can be viscerally repulsive and result in the very rejection the man feared in the first place.

A year of new management

Mon, 25 Jun 2007 06:01:51 -0700

Jane M's account of her Taken In Hand journey in the last year.

Correcting possible misconceptions about Taken In Hand

Mon, 04 Jun 2007 12:28:48 -0700

This piece by Sully is essential reading for anyone who is shocked by the idea of a Taken In Hand relationship.

Saying "no" as code for "I care"

Tue, 29 May 2007 11:20:43 -0700

In many relationships, this would be experienced negatively, but Dandelion is in a Taken In Hand relationship, and it made her positively swoon!

Sleeping positions, rituals and control

Sun, 20 May 2007 19:06:38 -0700

Another charming piece by CarlF.

Why is commitment important?

Sat, 19 May 2007 07:28:01 -0700

Stephen explains what men are missing sexually when they fail to take into account the importance of commitment.

She may not know it yet, but I'm taking her in hand

Tue, 06 Feb 2007 14:08:50 -0800

It sounds as though GreySeal's wife is very happy that he has started taking her in hand – even if she has never heard of Taken In Hand.

Taken In Hand - the view of a psychiatrist

Fri, 01 Sep 2006 08:45:52 -0700

Is this philosophy of intimate relationships really as bad as some self-proclaimed ‘experts’ would have us believe?

Under new management

Tue, 06 Jun 2006 03:43:31 -0700

... and loving it!

Is Taken In Hand control real?

Mon, 05 Jun 2006 06:35:33 -0700

It is sometimes suggested that the control in Taken In Hand relationships is not real, but it certainly feels real to those involved.

Needing my wife

Fri, 28 Apr 2006 09:11:19 -0700

Sam has his wife Missy very much in hand, and she has him very much in heart.

How we stopped the escalation of verbal hostilities

Mon, 03 Apr 2006 01:55:19 -0700

How Taken In Hand dramatically reduced the amount of negativity and increased the amount of positive communication in one marriage.

When you've seen a happy marriage with your own eyes...

Wed, 08 Feb 2006 12:06:33 -0800

... the knowledge that happy marriage is possible never leaves you.