Taken In Hand - John http://www.takeninhand.com/taxonomy/term/322/0 en-local Should love be willing to share? http://www.takeninhand.com/node/1941 <p>John has a very firm and well-explained answer.</p> Wed, 17 Oct 2007 15:03:57 -0700 When visual pornography makes a wife feel devalued http://www.takeninhand.com/node/1934 <p>John takes a dim view of the idea that visual pornography is fine in a case in which it is devastating to the wife, and does not agree that it is a good idea for the wife to suffer in silence.</p> Thu, 04 Oct 2007 14:45:13 -0700 Loving, supportive and kind control http://www.takeninhand.com/node/1262 <p>A man can feel the need to be in control without feeling any inclination for that control to be oppressive or in any way unpleasant for the woman he loves.</p> Tue, 11 Apr 2006 05:35:44 -0700 Pornography prevents and corrodes relationships http://www.takeninhand.com/node/1062 <p>John argues that using pornography can destroy or even prevent the development of an intensely connected, passionate relationship.</p> Wed, 09 Nov 2005 03:05:23 -0800