Taken In Hand - Articles about male dominance

Is it ever OK to FORCE your wife to do something?

Sun, 03 Aug 2008 11:20:56 -0700

What if a wife really really doesn't want to do something her husband tells her to do? Is forcing her to do it OK in a Taken In Hand context? DeeMarie examines this important issue.

My treasure

Mon, 30 Jun 2008 02:56:20 -0700

Dreamwalker with a delectable post on the wife as property idea.

Watch what she does, not what she says

Wed, 18 Jun 2008 09:22:21 -0700

So many women clearly respond sexually to take-charge men who take care of them and don't expect them to be equal in all ways in the relationship, while thinking that they want a pro-feminist man and a thoroughly egalitarian relationship. And when they find their egalitarian man, they don't want him!

Entitled to all of her husband

Wed, 11 Jun 2008 05:41:37 -0700

Another steamy piece by CarlF: you won't want to miss this!

Romance novels, good girls and mothers

Tue, 20 May 2008 06:17:18 -0700

An absolutely fascinating, must-read article by CarlF.

Woman whisperer

Sat, 10 May 2008 07:38:23 -0700

If you are a single man looking for a woman with whom to develop a Taken In Hand relationship, don't reject women who need to be brought to submission.

Why being married beats playing the pickup game

Mon, 28 Apr 2008 08:14:11 -0700

In this fascinating piece, JB says that he finds marriage preferable to playing multiple women because in his Taken In Hand marriage he is firmly in control whereas in the game of pickup he felt controlled by the women and by the performance required in playing the pickup game.

Circumventing consent in a Taken In Hand relationship

Wed, 23 Jan 2008 01:49:01 -0800

Men wanting to know what Taken In Hand calls for should read this post. So many Taken In Hand women wish for precisely what CarlF's wife has expressed.

When a man takes charge, his wife no longer rejects him sexually

Mon, 19 Nov 2007 02:52:48 -0800

When Edwina and her husband discovered Taken In Hand and the idea of the wife being sexually available to the husband, the benefits were many, as this article shows. Her husband had been rather passive and tentative, and had suffered from feelings of rejection when that approach had not thrilled Edwina. The last thing many women (Taken In Hand type women, anyway) want is to be asked whether they are tired as a way of asking tentatively for sex. What they want is to be firmly taken by a man. They don't want to be in the position of giving permission, and the passivity and timidity and pathetic pleading nature of such interactions can be viscerally repulsive and result in the very rejection the man feared in the first place.

Are you getting through to her?

Tue, 28 Aug 2007 06:48:25 -0700

A husband in a Taken In Hand relationship needs to get through to his wife. If he is not getting through to her, his wife needs to find a way to let him know.

Correcting possible misconceptions about Taken In Hand

Mon, 04 Jun 2007 12:28:48 -0700

This piece by Sully is essential reading for anyone who is shocked by the idea of a Taken In Hand relationship.

Saying "no" as code for "I care"

Tue, 29 May 2007 11:20:43 -0700

In many relationships, this would be experienced negatively, but Dandelion is in a Taken In Hand relationship, and it made her positively swoon!

"No" means "take me"

Tue, 22 May 2007 17:30:00 -0700

The aim of "No means no!" is to give men a simple way to avoid actually raping a woman. The problem is that no does not always mean no, and the denial of that reality makes it more likely that men will make mistakes than if that reality were acknowledged.

Sleeping positions, rituals and control

Sun, 20 May 2007 19:06:38 -0700

Another charming piece by CarlF.

Saying "no", leadership and chocolate

Wed, 16 May 2007 19:09:39 -0700

Don't miss this brilliant piece by CarlF.