Taken In Hand - Noone

A question of commitment - will he be there when she needs him?

Mon, 05 May 2008 14:28:37 -0700

Noone, on the importance of commitment.

Taken In Hand is low-key and private, not a 'lifestyle'

Sat, 22 Sep 2007 05:24:18 -0700

Individuals who identify with the BDSM or D/s or whatever label often get really annoyed that many Taken In Hand folk refuse to label themselves BDSM or D/s or whatever the person's preferred label. I don't care what you call Taken In Hand, or how you categorise it in your own mind, I just don't personally feel the need to submit to your preferred label.

Are you getting through to her?

Tue, 28 Aug 2007 06:48:25 -0700

A husband in a Taken In Hand relationship needs to get through to his wife. If he is not getting through to her, his wife needs to find a way to let him know.

Why the "Wow!"?

Thu, 17 May 2007 05:50:50 -0700

When couples discover Taken In Hand and their relationship starts to evolve in this direction, they typically describe it as mind-blowingly thrilling. They tend to be astonished by how right it feels, even in their first faltering experimental steps. Why do so many couples experience this “Wow!”? Here is one person's answer. What is your answer?

A few thoughts on crying

Thu, 08 Jun 2006 11:21:45 -0700

While some women never cry when given a thrashing, and never want to, others long for the release of tension that a good cry represents, yet can't cry. If you are such a woman, or if you are a man whose wife can't cry, this article might help.

What is the alpha male's secret?

Wed, 19 Oct 2005 11:08:05 -0700

Is it all in the voice?

Flying by the seat of your pants

Wed, 19 Oct 2005 05:02:08 -0700

Love is more visceral than cerebral. It is more flying by the seat of one's pants than filing a flight plan.

Do you have the patience to make your marriage work?

Fri, 14 Oct 2005 06:32:06 -0700

Are you like a pair of wooden gears, meshing together better and better as the teeth age?

Who wants a slave?

Tue, 27 Sep 2005 06:17:02 -0700

Why are so many Taken In Hand readers uncomfortable with the idea of Taken In Hand wife as ‘slave’?

Natural flow

Fri, 27 May 2005 04:40:24 -0700

On natural flow as opposed to unnaturally dominant or submissive behaviour, with advice to men to put the woman before their own whims, and not to expect to be in charge of everything all the time.

What women want

Wed, 18 May 2005 08:50:55 -0700

This is what I want. If you too are a woman, what do you want?

When is implicit consent enough?

Mon, 16 May 2005 06:02:02 -0700

To what extent do you think that consent for control should be explicit? Does it depend on the way control is expressed? What do you all think?

Four levels of spanking

Thu, 21 Apr 2005 06:03:19 -0700

Noone on the four levels of spanking.

Do women want more feminine men?

Wed, 20 Apr 2005 06:22:32 -0700

Not all women want men to be more “feminine”. Some of us prefer take-charge men.

A woman must know that her man cares

Fri, 08 Apr 2005 23:59:42 -0700

Being a husband is not about being a warden, it is about caring.