Taken In Hand - the boss

When you've seen a happy marriage with your own eyes...

Wed, 08 Feb 2006 12:06:33 -0800

... the knowledge that happy marriage is possible never leaves you.

What if your wife feels scared and vulnerable?

Thu, 19 Jan 2006 13:17:18 -0800

Advice for any man whose wife feels scared and vulnerable during the introduction of a Taken In Hand relationship.

Warum du Spanking nicht verweigern solltest!

Fri, 25 Nov 2005 03:34:03 -0800

Waere es nicht wirksamer, ihr das Spanking zu verweigern? Neeeeeein! Klicken Sie auf den Link um herauszufinden, warum nicht!

Effect positive change by acting as if...

Sat, 12 Nov 2005 07:08:27 -0800

Instead of behaving badly to provoke your husband into taking you in hand, take this much more constructive course of action.

He isn't interested in or capable of taking you in hand?

Fri, 11 Nov 2005 01:36:24 -0800

That's what you think. But it might be that you are inadvertently undermining him because you cannot see the man he is. You may think this is definitely not the case, but it is worth taking steps to make sure that it is not you who are the barrier to change.

It's all my parents' fault!

Fri, 04 Nov 2005 17:16:51 -0800

Yes, this time it's not my grandparents, it's my parents!

Resistance is futile

Wed, 02 Nov 2005 07:21:50 -0800

Or is it?!

A beginners' guide to spanking

Mon, 31 Oct 2005 22:58:34 -0800

What beginners might want to know about taking a woman in hand by spanking her.

Si vis pacem, para bellum

Sun, 16 Oct 2005 12:08:37 -0700

If you as a man want deep peace (and a lot of fun!) in your Taken In Hand relationship, be prepared to enforce compliance.

Saying things for effect

Tue, 04 Oct 2005 22:45:27 -0700

When a man says he doesn't care what the woman he loves wants, is he serious, or is he saying it for effect? This piece explains why you are less likely to hear so many statements said for effect in a Taken In Hand marriage than in some other kinds of relationships. (And no, this is not to say that Taken In Hand is better, merely to point out a difference!)

How do you maintain control in little ways?

Fri, 14 Oct 2005 03:40:41 -0700

Control need not necessarily involve violence or anything very dramatic.

Do you 'meet as equals' or 'establish roles from the outset'?

Thu, 06 Oct 2005 02:56:47 -0700

How in the world can you create a male-controlled relationship if you meet and get to know each other as equals?

Zou dit type relatie wat voor u kunnen zijn?

Tue, 04 Oct 2005 11:04:02 -0700

Over wat voor soort relatie hebben we het?

Freedom or invested in a deep relationship?

Tue, 04 Oct 2005 00:33:23 -0700

Do you like to keep your options open or put all your eggs in one basket?

Arguments for marriage, cohabiting or living separately

Sun, 25 Sep 2005 04:30:02 -0700

On Taken In Hand, we tend to talk marriage, but why? What are the arguments for each option?