Taken In Hand relationships are pretty special. The three things I want in a relationship, I have in abundance with my wife. I believe it's because we have a Taken In Hand relationship. What are those three things? Love, sex, and intimacy. It's that simple.
The intimacy and love come because the Taken In Hand relationship is so sexy. When you feel sexually satisfied, you feel a whole lot of love for your spouse and you show your love and want to make your spouse happy. When you feel sexually satisfied, you want to talk to your spouse and that brings intimacy. So the bottom line is, it's about making great relationships by creating sexual heat between you.
There's nothing more erotic to me than to know that my wife loves being in this relationship with me. There's nothing more erotic than knowing she's always available for me if I want sex. She says there's nothing more sexy than being available to me, so we have a win-win situation here. Just knowing I can take her whenever I want... it's what other men dream of. Just knowing that when I take her, she'll submit and open her legs for me and she's excited and willing every time... other folks have talked about a sense of peace, but let me tell you, THIS is peace. There's no greater satisfaction than this. This submission from my wife is the greatest gift.
My wife commented that my dominance is the greatest gift to her. She's wired to respond sexually to it and can't get enough of it. I wouldn't say she's obedient, but she's pretty happy with how we're doing so there's no fights or stonewalling. The more I make decisions for her (taking her wishes into consideration every time) the more dreamy-eyed she gets. I love it when she looks at me like I'm her hero.
When I tell me wife to be sure and take enough time for pampering herself after a hard day, seeing the look in her eye—love, submission and “you're my hero”—does it for me. This is great: this kind of dominance—Taken In Hand protective, caring dominance—turns my wife on big time and makes her happy. And when you've got a turned on, happy wife, you have a happy, satisfied husband!