Taken In Hand -

What I Can Give In Return

Sun, 14 Mar 2010 16:35:19 -0700

Husbands have needs too.

The Five Love Languages, by Gary Chapman: a review

Thu, 04 Mar 2010 10:36:13 -0800

Nartie likes this book.

He was horrified but now he is very happy

Tue, 02 Mar 2010 11:42:08 -0800

How things have changed!

Change is a two way street

Mon, 01 Mar 2010 12:34:25 -0800

Nartie on how she came to understand that she too needed to change, not just her husband.

Passionate conquest

Fri, 29 Jan 2010 01:30:34 -0800

Jacob prefers another name for that intense kind of interaction that looks like rape except in its most important respect – that it is deeply consentual – the wife wholeheartedly wants it.

Hoping for a happy marriage?

Tue, 09 Feb 2010 01:50:13 -0800

What makes a happy marriage?

Recognition

Mon, 08 Feb 2010 00:38:19 -0800

Hikitty's account of her first meeting with her take-charge husband.

Be patient!

Tue, 02 Feb 2010 21:13:23 -0800

Nartie's honest and human piece is not to be missed.

Embracing each other's darkest secrets

Thu, 28 Jan 2010 02:10:06 -0800

Don't miss this fascinating and beautifully written article. After nearly 18 years of marriage, Melman and his wife are experimenting with a Taken in Hand relationship.

The man needs to be the pursuer

Tue, 05 Jan 2010 13:05:01 -0800

Sonja had some good advice for women (and men!) seeking a Taken In Hand relationship.

Loving the missionary position may be your first clue

Fri, 11 Dec 2009 06:51:49 -0800

Elly says that loving the missionary position and not feeling demeaned by it was her first inkling that she might enjoy this kind of relationship.

Two years and counting

Sun, 06 Dec 2009 06:20:30 -0800

How one man brought his initially-reluctant wife happily to a heavenly Taken In Hand relationship.

Taken In Hand works best when it is organic

Wed, 18 Nov 2009 00:51:18 -0800

Noone on rules.

Why do some rules work but not others?

Sat, 07 Nov 2009 05:25:27 -0800

Louise draws a helpful distinction between formal lists of rules and enforcement measures instigated by the wife (which tend not to work well in many Taken In Hand marriages) and rules that the husband naturally makes over time as issues arise.

How long does it take to adjust to Taken In Hand?

Thu, 08 Oct 2009 07:22:04 -0700

Mia has some excellent suggestions for those starting out.