My husband's good at making me feel very sexy as the mother of his child, and for me, this is preferable to imagining wife and mother as two far-flung roles to shuttle between. I am not the kind of person who can wait for date night or even tonight, or shove away or push down what is essential to myself, or divide my heart as if it's a steak. I am his wife and our daughter's mother at once always.
How does my husband make me one sexy momma? Mostly with lots of sex, but also he doesn't treat me like I'm his mother while some men do treat their wives that way. And he asks casually, "Have you been a good mother?" His eyes show he knows that I have, so he asks to make me feel good and under his authority and for the pleasure of hearing all about it.