Dandelion has an interesting take on journaling.

The power of mere words.

The aim of "No means no!" is to give men a simple way to avoid actually raping a woman. The problem is that no does not always mean no, and the denial of that reality makes it more likely that men will make mistakes than if that reality were acknowledged.

How can women tell if a man might be open to a Taken In Hand relationship?

Another charming piece by CarlF.

When couples discover Taken In Hand and their relationship starts to evolve in this direction, they typically describe it as mind-blowingly thrilling. They tend to be astonished by how right it feels, even in their first faltering experimental steps. Why do so many couples experience this “Wow!”? Here is one person's answer. What is your answer?

Techiechic used to disdain women who prefer to live under the control of a man—and then she realised that she herself is such a woman.

Sometimes the relationship needs a spanking, in which case it might be a mistake to wait for a “good reason”, as CarlF so rightly says.

Louise doesn't think much of people acting like idiots.

Like many women on this site who want to be actively controlled by their man, Sully finds the idea of “just submitting” (to what, exactly, if the man is not exerting control?!) decidedly unappealing.

Read Louise's review of Aubrey Andelin's Man of Steel and Velvet or add your own review by clicking here and scrolling down to the “reply” box.

Don't waste your life looking for something you already have, if only you could see it.

Just as some women grow up with the idea that the desire to live under the control of a man is unacceptable and needs to be overcome, some men also grow up with the idea that the desire to be in control in a relationship is unacceptable and needs to be overcome. This website aims to promote real choice, by letting it be known that there are thousands and thousands and thousands of happy, stable, well-adjusted Taken In Hand couples out there.

You won't want to miss this very important article by Ted.

Louise compares one book to the other.