Taken In Hand -

Taken In Hand for the fatally flawed

Sat, 04 Jul 2009 05:22:48 -0700

In this touching article, Louise points out that you do not need to be a paragon of all known virtues for Taken In Hand to work for you. In part, Taken In Hand is, indeed, a way of positively solving problems created by our many flaws.

How can singles make themselves more ready for a Taken In Hand relationship?

Fri, 03 Jul 2009 05:52:08 -0700

Because not everyone on this site is married. :-)

What Taken In Hand requires of you as a husband

Wed, 01 Jul 2009 14:17:54 -0700

Noone points out that Taken In Hand is deceptively simple.

Advice for husbands beginning to take charge in their marriage

Tue, 30 Jun 2009 19:28:31 -0700

Ezekiel has some fabulous advice for husbands in Taken In Hand marriages.

What is the best way to think about this?

Tue, 30 Jun 2009 06:44:46 -0700

This husband wants to know how he should be thinking about his wife and his Taken In Hand relationship as he begins taking charge.

Taken In Hand as opposed to completely docile

Sat, 13 Jun 2009 14:00:38 -0700

The Taken In Hand relationship is one in which, to the delight of both spouses, the husband actively controls (takes in hand) his wife, who may be a bit of a handful (as opposed to submissive/docile).

Song review: Stronger Than Me, by Amy Winehouse

Sat, 13 Jun 2009 14:28:29 -0700

What songs do you yourself associate with Taken In Hand ideas?

What would you have done differently at the beginning?

Thu, 11 Jun 2009 03:03:14 -0700

If you are in a Taken In Hand relationship, and you could go back to the beginning of your Taken In Hand relationship, what would you do differently this time? What advice would you give to couples just starting out?

How to avoid making your life with your wife a living hell

Wed, 10 Jun 2009 10:00:39 -0700

Noone urges men not to ignore the clues that a woman might want to be firmly controlled by her loving husband.

How do I convince him to take control?

Sat, 23 May 2009 01:24:01 -0700

When a man doesn't understand that a headstrong woman can want to be controlled by her loving husband, and that she might not be able to submit in the absence of active control on her husband's part, what can be done, if anything?

How do deployed military folk maintain their relationship?

Mon, 04 May 2009 05:03:00 -0700

Abdiel wants to hear from military families in Taken In Hand relationships: how do you keep your relationship strong through long overseas deployments?

Man who wants to take in hand

Wed, 29 Apr 2009 16:13:16 -0700

Many husbands like the idea of Taken In Hand but find it difficult, initially, to take control. Is Taken In Hand rational? Is it nice? Is it really REALLY something a good man would do? Or is it beyond the pale?

What if he is horrified by the idea?

Mon, 20 Apr 2009 06:38:16 -0700

Most men, including even the most take-charge, react badly when they first hear about the idea of Taken In Hand. The deeply consensual nature of the Taken In Hand relationship is not immediately obvious, and Taken In Hand appears so antithetical to everything good people believe in. The good news is that in many cases the relationship happily evolves into a Taken In Hand one anyway, despite the man's initial horror at the idea of being actually in control in the relationship. This article is a charming account of one such case.

Respect and cherishing

Sat, 11 Apr 2009 22:05:14 -0700

When a husband feels disrespected, how does he react?

A black and white issue?

Tue, 31 Mar 2009 12:47:51 -0700

Elly asks how to handle a delicate situation.