Greater humility, less defensiveness

I have been absolutely stunned at my change in the area of improving and admitting when I've been mistaken. I considered myself to be a very honest and kind person before, however, before beginning a Taken In Hand relationship I would never confess things to my husband or admit even to myself how very sorry I was for things I had said to him.

Forget my ever telling him I felt I had not treated him with respect. I was too busy pointing out all the things I thought he had done wrong to me!

This has perhaps been one of the most wonderful parts of our new relationship. I truly feel sorry for the times I do not treat my husband the way he deserves to be treated. When I tell him I am sorry, I feel it. The first time I really felt so very sorry for the way I had treated him was after one of my early spankings. What a relief to be able to tell him I was sorry and wanted to treat him with more respect. Finally I had the necessary trust to do so. I felt so warm, so satisfied and so loved after this apology to him.

This new relationship has made us both so much closer to one another and has made us both free from so many things that were keeping us from being happy.

Annie D.

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Saying sorry

I too find that I apologise to my husband if I've done something that annoyed him, whereas before being Taken In Hand I never used to apologise to him, I was always on the defensive. It has nothing to do with fear of being spanked though, I feel an increased respect for him because he keeps control of himself better these days, and doesn't yell at me.

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