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Introducing... G: “Roman Catholic marriage”

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I would dearly love to be in a Taken In Hand marriage. My strongest desire is not only to have a man in my life to please, but I wish him to be the only man in my life, and I the only woman in his...from a sexual and/or romantic perspective. I expect that he will have a mother, and female friends, but I need and want to be the only woman he will take in hand.

Being a practicing Roman Catholic woman, monogamy and sexual exclusivity are paramount to me in a relationship. Marriages, and the love relationships that lead up to them, were designed to be for a couple...and a couple means exactly two people. In a case that involves me, this means one man and one woman (me).

No matter what a "man" might think, he is not really man enough to satisfy more than one woman. If he believes so, not only is he merely a boy, he is sadly deluded. If a man professes to love a woman, then he should love only that one woman. She should be the reason he gets out of bed in the morning and goes to work...and he should be the reason she does the same, whether she is a housewife or works outside the home. She should be the light of his life...brighter than any other light he sees....and he the same for her.

While I believe that men and women have equal rights, I do believe that it is quite natural for a woman to submit to a man. He is able to protect her, care for her, and guide her. Is the woman able to do this for herself - am I able to do this for myself? The answer to this is a resounding yes. I simply choose to seek a man who will take some of this responsibility from me. He will make decisions that need to be made; he will set ground rules for us, and will decide the consequences when the rules are not followed. He will decide what is best for us, taking into consideration my thoughts and feelings on the matter, but still being the final decision maker. I see men not as superior to me, but rather stronger than me. I seek a strong man, one who is intelligent, learned, kind, gentle yet firm, and not afraid to step up and take the lead in our relationship.

While I seek protection, care and guidance...I seek also to give care in tandem. I love cooking for a man, making the things he likes best...and sneaking in things that might be healthier for him when he is not looking. I do not mind doing cleaning chores, nor caring for pets or children - although I currently have neither pets nor children. I long to be loved by a man who will let me care for him as he guides and protects me. I would be quite content to be a homemaker, but I am in no way opposed to working outside the home either. I am a teacher by education, and an administrative assistant by trade.

Trust and honesty are so very important in a relationship…I cannot emphasize this enough. Both man and woman must be completely honest at all times to deserve the trust of the other. I have experienced lies and deceit; I have experienced infidelity and betrayal. I wish never to experience either again, and I will never cause pain in this manner to a man…nor to a woman – I will never willingly or willfully be the other woman. Not ever, so don’t even ask me to do that.

Love – both emotional and physical – are key to a relationship of this nature. No amount of guidance or discipline will be effective if love is not there. Emotional harmony is just as important as physical too….the sex may be great, but if there is no love, the spark will not last. Likewise, emotional connection is a wonderful thing, but if no chemistry or compatibility exists, then it would be simply a friendship…and more is needed for a successful marriage.

This is what I desire…this is what I seek. Please contact me if you would like to know more. I am happy to share things about myself to an honest, open person who seeks like things.

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