Availability and rape

I ‘rape’ my girlfriend regularly. She knows that whenever I want sex, she must submit to my desire without question. It's simple for her and simple for me. She is totally available sexually for me whenever I want BUT the foundation for this intensely erotic and ultimately deeply emotional exchange is that she is treated by me as a queen, a jewel, an incomparable and peerless precious and adorable woman who I worship.

She is sexually satisfied in a way she previously never dreamed possible. She knows how much I love her and one of the ways I show my deep love for her is to take her sexually and forcefully whenever I choose.

“Rape” in this context is my demanding sexual ravishment of her without her request or expressed desire: she has has abrogated all responsibility in the realm of sex to me. She also knows that my desire for her is limitless and this gives her the most profound sense of being wanted and her deep satisfaction is intensified by her openly avowed availability to me. I cannot begin to describe how closely this dynamic bonds us together.

This astonishingly erotic exchange exists only because I also express in words and deeds my all-encompassing love for her in all ways beyond the solely sexual realm.

Powerful stuff: I treat it with care and live and love in a way I never imagined before.

Andralone

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2007 Oct 15 - 00:38 | login or register to post comments | latest article | previous article | next article |

MMmmmm

Lucky her. We didn't have in the UK the concept of rape within marriage until not that long ago because marriage meant continuous consent. That is not too far removed from how some of feel although it was right to alter the law.

You don't really technically rape her as she's given you that consent already which is what always feels right to me as well with a man.

The only time this is a problem is if she wanted it more often and you didn't etc but it doesn't sound like that's an issue for you both at present.

by Hera on 2007 Oct 15 - 14:01 | login or register to post comments

I agree, mmmm

and I am going to leave this up as I'd like to be able to explain to my fiancee the depths of the things I am looking for somethings are so difficult to explain...

to be raped (under this definition) by him?? I'd feel so desired...

by Dawn E on 2007 Oct 22 - 09:29 | login or register to post comments

Being wanted this much at this age is wonderful!

Adralone,

My husband takes me in bed me whenever he chooses. I don't like the word rape - but I guess this is another word for what he does. I am available to him at any time and he is careful with that gift.

There is a difference though in him making love to me and him taking me. Love is about mutual pleasure - and S always see to it that I am pleased. Him taking me is usually about his need to release tension; or at times it is about me having teased him a bit too much - LOL.

When he has a particularly bad day at work, he often wants me as soon as he walks in the door - but with small children everywhere, that's not always possible - or practical! So as the evening progresses, the tension inside him builds and by the time the baby is in bed, his hands are all over me. If I am tired and protest, he reminds me that 'no' isn't an option. If I continue to protest, he might grab my hair and kiss me hard and say "you are my wife - remember?" in a tone that implies resistance is futile. His touch is very firm during these times. He rarely waits until I am fully ready so his first penetration is not always pleasant - but it is always HOT! (perhaps this bit of pain arouses me the way spanking arouses some women on this site). The emotional force (reminding me that 'no' isn't an option) and physical force (pulling me into the room and usually pulling my clothes off) that he uses at these times reminds me of his overall control and I love that feeling. The fact that he wants me so much and that he can't wait to have me is a huge turn on.

To be a woman in my late forties and have a man want me in this manner is a wonderful feeling.

I always get to replace the clothes with nicer ones if he ruins them - at his cost.

M-

by M- on 2008 Sep 1 - 22:37 | login or register to post comments

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