I want...

I want… respect
I want… to submit
I want… to be feminine
I want… to be loved
I want… to be tamed
I want… to be cared for
I want… to be controlled
I want… to be constrained
I want… to be reined-in
I want… to be taken in hand
I want… to be taken
I want… to be with a man for longer than two dates

Sunny

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A nice set of wants...........

Hi Sunny

You sound like you have a very strong set of wants and wishes, all of which seem to be held back by the lack of a suitable partner..... I wish you well in your search, and hope you get what you would like for Christmas. Do not give up hope! I recently got involved with a lovely lady, long after I had assumed I was destined to stay single for the rest of my life. Surprises do happen, and sometimes you get nice ones as well.

Good luck

Random

I want........ Item by Sunny

Sorry to be judgemental... of MEN... What has happened in our world when a lonely lady wants 'to be with a man longer than two dates'.... When are you men going to wake up and be men and realise that women want long-term love, care and protection? Have none of you men ever looked at a biology book or even looked out of your windows at the REAL world.... not just your CRTs or whatever you look at 'x' hours a day. Try the real world... look at your wife, your mistress, your lover, even your whore... she is a human and needs human love, compassion... whatever... not the fear that the human bonding she has at last found will only last for 'two dates'.Try reading what I (as 'ben' said about love.. for what it is worth. It is worth EVERYTHING and should last an eternity... if properly nurturted. Try nurturing your love.. that is what I think the boss P is trying to get us all to understand. I am not at all a religious person but the Judaeo-Christian-Islamic tradition can teach us all a great deal.

ben (now another!)

'I want .... item by Sunny'... comments by 'ben'

Thank goodness for a sense of reality. WE MUST hold on to, strengthen and develop out relationships... not walk away at the first sign of the first problem. REAL love can grow and grow and deepen until it can NEVER possibly end... hang in there... unless it is abusive or dangerous... it may just be the heaven you want. Like 'ben' I am not 'religious, whatever he means by that, but I agree completely with where he is coming from about the religious basis for our society that came out of the mid-East desert circa 2-3 millennia ago.
nathan

Sunny's needs

I so agree with what ben & nathan have written. If we are about anything it is NOT about discipline, D/s, BDSM... lovely as they may be as part of our personal and very private love... it is surely about loving and being loved so deeply, deeper and deeper, day in and day out, year in and year out, that our very electrons spin together ( for the Scientists try 'Eisenberg's Uncertainty Principle' for an explanation.. otherwise try Bill Bryson's brilliant book on 'History of Everything')
For the Christians among you, a good and Happy Christmas... for the rest, Hindus,Jains,Buddhists, Jews, Muslims, agnostics, atheists, humanists... even HUMANS... enjoy the love of your woman and nurture it... it is what we want and need so much... we are so confused by our world... just give us LOVE.. for ever.

Mary M. (who was not what she was said to have been)

Mary M's comments on ben and nathan and Sunny

Try the aprocryphal gospels of St Thomas (Didymus - the Twin) and St Barnabus if you want to understand true human love better.

Eusebius

Sunny and the various thoughts.

Has the boss P any thoughts to throw light on the meaning and need for deep, but wanted and ached-for, long-term and true love between woman and man?
nathan.

My thoughts

I can't speak for the boss P but I think love is a deep human need and that without it we wither and die inside. This is because being animals that can communicate, we need to do so. Look at what happens to human being when they're brought up by animals or without human interaction. They grow up without human socialization and communication. We have a need to connect and communicate so we need relationships.

Cara
PS Sunny I'm sorry you've had no luck finding a guy. Don't give up!

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