Who is the sexiest woman in the world?

There was a survey taken a few years ago that I wish that I could quote the exact statistics. But, since I can't, let me give the gist of the survey.

It asked men to choose the woman with the sexiest legs. Some voted for a particular movie star. Others a singer or other entertainer. But, what surpised the surveyors the most was that a large percentage of the men said, “My wife!”

In an intimate relationship, from many men's perspective, it is the availability of his mate, her openness to him, and her attitude toward him that draws him in and keeps him coming back for more.

As we age, our bodies show the effect of time and wear and tear. But, as is often said, the mind is the most powerful sex organ that we have. Yes, men are visual, but our eyesight ages over time. We see fewer flaws than we saw when we were younger. Other aspects of the relationship become more satisfying.

I think that I'm like many husbands out there: my wife is the sexiest creature and still lights my fire after 26 years of marriage and three kids. Her bottom gets a lot of my attention – in many ways :-) She presents it to me like the special treasure that it is.

Sam

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2005 Oct 30 - 19:33 | add new comment | latest article | previous article | next article |

Mine Too!

I couldn't agree more, Sam. After 23 years of marriage my wife is still the sexiest thing alive to me. Certainly her making herself available to me and actively enticing me on a continual basis only adds to her allure. In many ways she is more attractive now even than when we were younger.

I just wish I could convince of this fact. Marketing and media give women such a false idea of what is "sexy" and women sign up for these lies. It can make it very hard for a husband to overcome. But I'll never stop trying.

by J_s Keeper on 2005 Nov 1 - 16:06 | reply to this comment

The sexiest woman alive

As a wife, your article was really nice to read. Blame the culture, the media, whatever, but it's easy for women (regardless of background, education, or mindset) to buy into the notion that they MUST look a certain way in order to be attractive to their husbands.

It's nice to hear from guys who don't feel this way. My husband doesn't feel this way, either, but I still struggle every day to believe him.

by a Taken In Hand reader on 2005 Nov 11 - 03:28 | reply to this comment

My wife of course

“In an intimate relationship, from many men's perspective, it is the availability of his mate, her openness to him, and her attitude toward him that draws him in and keeps him coming back for more.”

For many years now I have been pondering the ideas that are contained in, such a statement as this that Sam makes and I feel compelled to agree completely with what he says. It is implicit in this that there is love and a consensual understanding between the partners as to how they please and relate to each other.

My wife and I have been married for been together for about 25 years now and I adore her. There have been times when we have had disconnections and tribulations through pressure of family and mistakes in our relationship, mostly on my part I am sure. However my love of her has been a constant factor in our life.

We still have sex once a day and we are willing to have fun and experiment together and we love the little things that enhance our time together. I see her as the girl I courted when we first met, but of course the years have painted age on both of us; that does not in any way diminish our ardor and excitement. I am 57 and she is 52 and we look forward eagerly to continuing and exploring our love.

Why I am writing this? Well we have always had Taken In Hand in one form or another and I think it positive that "older" partners reinforce the idea that a Taken In Hand style of partnership does work over time. When we started it had the quaint title of marriage!

So finally you may ask (but you know the answer I am going to give), who is the sexiest women in the world? My wife, of course!!

Thank you. Dave

by Davidaze on 2005 Nov 11 - 18:20 | reply to this comment

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