I'm perhaps a bit older than some of you, and there are films I grew up with that had some scenes that were heavily Taken In Hand. I remember watching them and feeling so filled with joy and a sense of pleasure watching them, and I want to turn you on to them, too.
One is The King And I with Yul Brynner and Deborah Kerr (made in the 1950s). There is one scene in which the King explains his philosophy of women, and if you are a Taken In Hand woman you will be so turned on by it!
Another is The Ten Commandments, also with Yul Brynner (also made in the 1950s). There is a scene where he confronts his bride to be who does not want to marry him. I won't spoil it by repeating the dialogue (which I've had memorized all these years!), but you'll love it. It's what I have fantasized a man saying to me ever since I was little, and I never felt safe sharing this with anyone till now!
You will also enjoy the American TV series from the 1960s, I Dream of Jeannie, about a female genie who is released from her bottle by a US Air Force major. She is the humorous “brat”, who calls him “Master” yet is always doing things to cause embarrassment for him. Cute show!