A woman who trusts you will allow you to bring your full physical power into the sexual act. In such a safe environment she will fully surrender and allow you to take her thoroughly, to the satisfaction of both parties.
I have a long-term relationship with a lovely woman. She is a doll physically, emotionally stable and an intellectual delight. Over the course of the first few months with her, I made it very clear, by action, that within the bedroom and within relationship behavior in social settings, I run the show. (With power comes responsibility—I am acutely sensitive to her needs and do my damndest to fulfill them.)
Like the little tiger she is she rebelled: no man had ever dared to dominate her. Well, there she was arguing with me, and I simply grabbed her hair, bent her head back and kissed her for as long as I wanted to. She tried to break the kiss very forcefully, but as I am a long-term bodybuilder she had no hope. In time she abandoned herself to the kiss and then poured herself into it. When I let her go her only comment was “Oh Good God”. I've never heard a word of feminist propaganda since.
At that point, I began escalating the sexual play into the ravishment arena. With each encounter I added a classic forceful element—pinned against a wall, hands held behind the back or above the head, kisses of my strength and choosing, etc until total ravishment was the order of the day. She loved it, the escalation underscored my self-control, built deep trust, and propelled the relationship forward in a deeply satisfying way. We are a couple years out now, and I routinely do anything I want to her whenever I want in any setting. She recently asked me, to my surprise, if I was holding back. And I was. I am strong enough and big enough, that I could hurt her if I wasn't careful. She then surprised me by saying she felt at this point that she could handle any level of sexual aggressiveness and to not hold back anything.
I didn't and neither did she! She stepped up her own aggressiveness to match my own which delighted me to no end. The mutual pleasure is more than I can describe and deeply satisfying and very stimulating to the relationship. We couldn't be in this spot but for the Taken In Hand style orientation and the acceptance of classical male/female roles.