Each to his own

We have received an important communication from a chap called Dermot, writing from England. He says:

If i want submission, I'd prefer to ... buy a sheepdog and call him ‘old faithful’

Well Dermot, thanks for the idea. However, my guess is that given a choice between a sheepdog and a human being, most Taken In Hand readers would probably have a slight preference for the latter. I may be going out on a limb here, but I'd hazard a guess that quite a few aren't into bestiality at all.

Have a nice day, Dermot, and let's hope the RSPCA people are not reading this now.

The Editor

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Thu, 27/11/2003 - 18:56

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#1 the boss, I don't even need to comment. . .

Except to say that is what I would have said to him-- though of course you always say it so much better.

Peace,
Daisy

There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it.--Edith Wharton

Submitted by Daisy on Thu, 27/11/2003 - 20:18.

#2 Hmmmm

I think you missed one aspect to the above note: not only does he want a sheep dog (bleah) he also want a *male* sheep dog.....

Perhaps the poor chap has had too many bitches in his life? *chuckles*

Random

Submitted by Random on Fri, 28/11/2003 - 09:12.

#3 Can't help myself

I think you missed one aspect to the above note: not only does he want a sheep dog (bleah) he also want a *male* sheep dog.....

ROFLMAO LOL Yes, the poor chanp does indeed seem to prefer a male dog...sheep dogs in England must be afright.

Actually, I though sheep dogs kind of led the pack of sheep....so, if he would truly would want a male sheep dog,,,smiling sheepishly.

Frank

Submitted by Frank Nelson on Thu, 04/12/2003 - 02:16.

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