I “rape” my girlfriend regularly. She knows that whenever I want sex, she must submit to my desire without question. It's simple for her and simple for me. She is totally available sexually for me whenever I want BUT the foundation for this intensely erotic and ultimately deeply emotional exchange is that she is treated by me as a queen, a jewel, an incomparable and peerless precious and adorable woman who I worship.
She is sexually satisfied in a way she previously never dreamed possible. She knows how much I love her and one of the ways I show my deep love for her is to take her sexually and forcefully whenever I choose.
“Rape” in this context is my demanding sexual ravishment of her without her request or expressed desire: she has has abrogated all responsibility in the realm of sex to me. She also knows that my desire for her is limitless and this gives her the most profound sense of being wanted and her deep satisfaction is intensified by her openly avowed availability to me. I cannot begin to describe how closely this dynamic bonds us together.
This astonishingly erotic exchange exists only because I also express in words and deeds my all-encompassing love for her in all ways beyond the solely sexual realm.
Powerful stuff: I treat it with care and live and love in a way I never imagined before.